Abi Neill, owner of Abigail’s Collection & The Groom’s Room and resident Bridal Retail Success Academy expert, answers your top questions on closing the sale and mastering your business mindset.
Bridal Week London was so much fun! I absolutely LOVED seeing all of the fabulous stores during the Bridal Retail Success Academy sessions - it’s one of my personal coaching highlights. A huge thank you to all of those that dropped in or waited for a chat! Alongside providing advice on buying, sales, staffing and social media, I found one of the biggest areas that needed addressing and supporting was mindset.
In response to a few comments from retailers feeling they’re in the midst of a confidence crisis, I found myself reminding business owners to look at their achievements and remember to celebrate themselves more! I encouraged several GREAT business owners to sit back and take a long look at everything that they have achieved. Us businesswomen within our sector have a natural tendency to doubt ourselves. I feel that we’re intrinsically insecure, and seem to need more external validation than ever before! It’s mainly social media that’s heightened this and increased the imposter syndrome (which is rife) so please listen up lovely people: don’t forget to CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESSES and remember that the competition is really with yourself!
High fives to those business teams who blew me away with their can-do, positive, vibey and exciting approach to bridal - there were several of you, you know who you are - and congratulations to each and everyone of you for all that you have achieved and will go on to achieve! A positive mindset is everything, so let us not forget to focus on the good because success breeds success.
Here’s a few thoughts and hopefully some words of advice inspired specifically from my sessions containing a few helpful nuggets here and there for you...
A: So, once upon a time, a bridal team’s work orientated around dressing brides during their sales appointments, the steaming, alterations and fittings, and of course the behind-the-scenes tasks such as diary and website management and deliveries, customer contact and admin management associated with a bridal store. But, work in the world of bridal is quite different now and I think that for a lot of long-standing boutiques, it’s been challenging making the adjustment needed to become a savvy store on the bridal circuit.
A bridal store’s sales success hangs on so much these days! The answer to the above question starts first with the understanding that it isn’t just what happens during your appointments. If you read my columns or have experienced my coaching at Bridal Week or on a one-to-one basis, you’ll know that I talk about the sale being in the pre-qual and that what you do through your social media and through the connection that you build with customers before they come to you for a bridal appointment and shopping experience is actually how to close more sales and stop your brides from shopping around.
Move your business to a place that brides WANT to buy from, and become the go-to shop that brides rave about and love! Do this through the cultivation of a compelling brand ethos, a genuinely brilliant team and a gorgeous boutique! Wow them with a brilliant customer-focused and celebratory appointment, and above all else, have fun and spread a bit of love! That’s how you close more sales!
A: First of all, be careful not to let the observation of other stores pervade and crush your own sense of accomplishment. You and your store is what matters, what other stores are selling and doing is not your priority. Put your enthusiasm, effort and energy into your own social media for the good of your business - so stop scrolling and start content creating!
It can take time and a huge amount of work, positivity and determination... plus, dare I say almost an obsessive business mindset! Owning a really successful bridal business is a lifestyle choice, and business owners of those businesses often struggle to find the balance and will definitely have made sacrifices - some of them make it look easy, but it isn’t. That said; the good news is that you really can become that retailer too, growing and selling more to become the ‘go to store’ if that’s your ambition. You see the fact that those stores exist is evidence enough that you can make it happen too. You may need coaching and advice, or you may be able to find your way there yourself, but if you want to you can also achieve that success - this is a fact!
I’m a little saddened at times by the envy and the comparison that retailers confidentially confess they feel about other (amazing) players in our industry. I do understand (have been there myself) but have quickly taught myself through mindset and productive positive thinking that what matters is my business, my team, my sales, and competition with my own figures and targets: not competition with my competitors on socials. And whilst we all do it, I am sure you can see that it can have a negative impact. So in conclusion, the quicker you focus on your store, your success and stay in your lane (head down and you do you) the faster you’ll be that ‘amazing business’ too. Stay focused and positive, and please: remind yourself how brilliant you are from time to time! Setting up a business is a brilliant accomplishment in itself.
I coach new and established businesses on all areas of successful bridal retailing including business development, mindset, sales, staffing, social media and building confidence on camera. Mini one-off projects are available after a free discovery call, and longer term coaching assistance is also possible. Catch me on Insta @abineill if you’d like to chat or on 07725 804917.